• Keep it simple. It’s hard to go wrong with an opening like “Hi, my name is ______. I read your profile noticed that we have quite a few interests in common. I noticed you like to ...." First, take the time to read the persons profile before you email them and quote something back from the profile to show them you took the read what they had to say.  For example, if they say they like dogs and you share that in common, talk about your love for dogs.  The biggest mistake people make in their first email is not making the effort in the first place
• Avoid cheesy pickup lines -- they sound insincere, and make it seem as if you are only after “one thing”.
• A great icebreaker is to ask for advice. For instance, if a prospective date’s profile says she likes hiking, ask about good hiking trails in your area, or about equipment that would be good for a beginner.
• Online dating can help you overcome shyness because it’s non-threatening, unlike face-to-face social events. When you’re online, nobody can see your trembling knees or sweaty hands. And you can always back away if things get too intense.
• Don’t try too hard to impress – you may be creating an image you just can’t live up to over the long term.
• The best way to be interesting is to be interested. Ask open ended questions about what’s important to your prospective date. Wait until you’re asked before talking at length about yourself.
• Keep the introductions short, but not too short.  Writing "Hi, my name is David, write back if you like my profile" will not yield the response you want.  Try not to write a novel either.  The best guide-line I can offer is, keep the first message to one average screen page.
• Don’t rush into things, even if everything seems to be going right. Allow some time to get to know each other before you commit to meeting in person.

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