• For the first date, plan to keep it short. A lunch date is ideal. If the two of you really click, you can always stay out longer, or make plans to meet again.
• Have a backup plan just in case the weather turns bad or the restaurant is closed.
• Call a day or two beforehand to confirm the date, time and place.
• Both he and she should use their own transportation on a first date. Be sure you know how to get to where you’ve agreed to meet, and show respect for your date by arriving on time.
• Dress appropriately for the occasion. For her: dress comfortably, and (although it sounds like a cliché) avoid overly provocative clothing. For him: be clean and neat, get a fresh haircut and a shave. For both: shower, use a mouthwash and deodorant, and avoid strong perfume or aftershave.
• For your own safety, let a friend or relative know where you’re going. Carry a cell phone with you, and be prepared to leave if things go beyond your comfort zone.
• Keep the conversation light and pleasant. Good subjects include family, work and career goals, hobbies and music. Touchy subjects such as ex-girlfriends, boyfriends or spouses are always off-limits on a first date.
• Show class and self control. Don’t go “all the way” on the first or second date, and drink in moderation, if you drink at all.
• First dates can be stressful. Keep a sense of humor, and don’t take things too seriously.
• Know when to end the date. Leave on a high note, before either of you starts getting bored. Be honest and courteous about whether you want to meet again.

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